Saturday, September 29, 2007

Squeezing my lemons.


Parenting is probably one of the most underrated jobs ever. The top is being in a relationship and being a parent. I cannot think of a situation with more time bombs just tick tick ticking away.
The shit happens when one parent is the disciplinarian and the other, well, a friend. I am always the "bad guy", the one that kills fun time for bed time and the one that makes them brush their teeth. I make them do homework and check their folders and he takes them on bike rides. Great. I am glad that they are bonding.
Hell no.
I actually heard him tell the kids "you better hurry and get this done or we will all be in trouble". WTF.
That was really said. I don't fucking think so. We are in this job together. The kids aren't supposed to like us. Love us, yeah. Trust us, yeah. Respect us, yeah. Like us, conditional (depending on the moment).
Boiling mad right now. Just might explode. But alas, here I sit, typing a short entry into my blog. You might here me explode in a bit. Don't worry, it isn't terminal. It is just another night in paradise. The good thing about it is the kids are now all in their rooms and I don't have to watch football! When life gives you lemons throw them at someone near you!

5 comments:

Mary P Jones (MPJ) said...

I am also the disciplinarian and least favorite parent. Yay!

Life does keep handing me lemons -- now to find someone to throw them at! Love it.

The Discovering Alcoholic said...

Parent, student, and professional... how you do it is beyond me. Take care my friend.

joy said...

Time to squeeze that lemon in a good cf.

Yep.

Mantramine said...

little fuckers.. all of them! I don't like that shit either- although, I don't like how he disciplines either, hmm- fuckers, all of them

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