Codependent worry

I cannot help worrying about this, you know, the death. I worry about how C will deal with it. Historically C cannot deal with death. When my dad died he stayed messed up the entire time. I didn't allow him at the funeral. His mom and grandma took him. I hope that he has learned his lesson. His mom had been on hospice for a number of years always yo-yoing to and from death. My hope is that he will feel relief. I will wait on the call from the caseworker.